Stigma behind online dating
You can blame it on biology and a man’s innate need to spread his seed, or on today’s culture which deems men who sleep with lots of women studs (and women who sleep with lots of men sluts), but it’s just the way it is.As such, women have control when it comes to sex and can decide whether to give in or not, while men have the control when it comes to commitment.They might lose their temper in the middle of a restaurant because they think you are flirting with the waiter. You’re not always sure what the problem is, but things never add up. If you follow what they say, things still don’t get better.
Of course, your partner is allowed to do whatever he or she wants and you are not allowed to question them, but they will control everything you do. You can’t control what happened to them, and you can’t solve it for them. and of course if i miss a call from him – even when im at work, im cheating or im doing something wrong.Its amazing how his opinions are always the right ones, even if it is something that has no right or wrong, if i dont agree with his opinion and i voice that then theres trouble.When i have tried to break up with him he will say I have wasted all the years we were together of his life so he will get me back, he wont leave it and he will ring my house phone at all times of night and if i didnt eventually meet him he would come to my house so because i am scared my parents wil get involved i meet him, he just uses my initial apprehension and time wasting as more fuel to hurt me. One day, he is caring and loving and wonderful, and the next he is hateful and raging and mean. You are afraid to talk, or when you do talk you feel like you are never heard, your words are taken out of context, misunderstood, or blatantly ignored. In the beginning of a relationship they might seem like everything you ever wanted….usually this is because they are trying to act like everything you ever wanted. You have no support group and therefore your partner gains more power. He or she might be mean to people they think are “below them” or people who are defenseless, like babies or children. Like flipping a switch, he can change drastically from one extreme to the next. He or she acts one way when they are around you, but completely different around your parents, and completely different around their friends. Slowly, you lose your friends until you feel like your partner is the only person you have left. Your partner cycles from mean and vicious to sweet and loving, then back again. He might set traps for squirrels or rabbits and then torture them.